Randy Shingler thank you so much for your thoughtful words.

I have written and rewritten this piece a thousand times. I don’t want it to sound like I’m a victim. I don’t want it to sound like I’m whining. I guess I didn’t want to sound weak or selfish yet that is exactly how an abuser makes you feel even though that isn’t how you feel! I know I just spoke in a circle but that is exactly how loopy and circular a situation like this becomes!

I knew now was the time to hit publish because the risk of not creating awareness is greater than remaining quiet. I refuse to keep silent.

Again, thank you so much for being on my team!