I do like the tug vs. needs tugging. I will begin using that.

Balance is tricky. When my kids were little I worried (about everything) that they weren’t eating a balanced diet. The wise doc said to write down everything they ate in a week and see if that looked balanced!

Wisdom! I still do that — when my kid comes home with Dunkin Donuts coffee drinks I keep quiet until the week is over. Usually, it balances out. I have many weekly mental check-ins.

Thanks Tom for another insightful article!