please don’t ask me how to pronounce it

Help, I’m stuck in this word and can’t get out!

Me standing on the frozen shore of Lake Michigan

As I “stand” (versus finding me in the fetal position until this is all over), how do I embrace identity, time, community, and the “new way”? I do feel ambiguity and disorientation. I thought it was just menopause. I thought…

and why I won’t let it happen anymore

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When I posted a new profile picture on Facebook, I never thought I would receive so many negative comments via messenger about my teeth.

I did wear Invisalign for way longer than I should have, and it still isn’t quite right — but it’s coming to an end soon, I…

Why keeping your vibes high matters

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The other day, hubs sent a video of a lawyer on a zoom call who couldn’t get his cat filter off. In the video, the exchange went something like this:

Lawyer 1: I’m not a cat.

Lawyer 2: I know you aren’t a cat.

Hang on . . . I…

Creating a new life in my 50's

My desire to take up less room on this planet.

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April 22, 2009

It was Earth Day and I had several projects planned for our homeschool day. One of the highlights of the day was watching the Oprah show where they would feature plastic in the ocean with devoted explored and activist Fabien Cousteau, following after his grandfather, undersea explorer Jacques Cousteau (whom…

My summer fling with Zingerman’s Gazpacho

Aren’t these colors beautiful? Photo: Renee Tarantowski

“Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.” — Lao Tzu

I use this phrase often. Especially as I teach my own kids how to cook (and make videos for them.) Not only do…

After a year to get $h*t done, what did I really accomplish?

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My year of renunciation was a personal success — 12 Months of Minimalism. I did journal every day; I haven’t eaten meat, I haven’t had a drink, I stayed off social media — for the most part. I’m very proud of myself for making a pact with myself and keeping…

When motherhood turns back to womanhood

One on the bus, one walking to the bus stop, one left early for a club, one still in bed. Oddly, I’m not sad.

Our morning walk to the bus stop

I’ve been planning for this day.

For years when the kids walked out the door, they took bits of me like strength, courage, determination, and passion…

I never knew there was a name for how I’ve felt since high school. It is arrival fallacy.

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Let me just say; I’m not a mental health professional. I’m a health and wellness writer connecting the dots between science and the human experience.

Here where I live in IL, they have 8th-grade graduations. The school hypes up the entire school year of 8th grade like it is some…

A lesson in modern homemaking

one of the few idioms my mom said that didn’t contain a swear word

Growing up with Farmer’s Sayings

“Rain before 7, quit before 11.”

“Never plant until the lilacs bloom.”

“Red sky at night, sailors delight.”

“Clear as a bell, colder than hell.”

And of course, “Waste not, want not.”

The list goes on and little sayings come out of my mouth without even thinking. I grew…

A quote to make us pause and reflect

“Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent.” Carl Jung

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Editorial Note: I have had this in draft form for a very long time. In 2019, I decided that 2020 would be a year of renunciation. It…

renee tarantowski

Health and Wellness Writer, Adventurous Momma to 4 teenagers/adults, healer, teacher, traveler. My life is a contradiction documented in notebooks.

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